About Kelsey Obsession
Hello and welcome to KelseyObsession.net: The Temple of Female Filth! To learn more about the site itself, scroll on down. If you’d like to learn a little more about Kelsey, click here or scroll down a little further!
About The Site:
Welcome to KelseyObsession.net where me and my kinky friends fetishize every inch of our curvaceous bodies - from our sweaty feet to our flatulent fannies to our pink slobbery mouths. Worship at the altar of the deliciously dirty female form, bathing in the stink and the stickiness of our physical, primal filth.
|Once upon a time...
Alice Frost ate my foot!
Shot by Rick Garcia
Is female filth everyone’s cup of tea? Of course not! But for those who love it, you’ve found a place where a woman’s primal reality is not only welcome, but celebrated. Come join the stew!
Hi, I’m Kelsey Obsession and welcome to my weird* little corner of the internet. I never felt I was normal, sexually or otherwise, and when I discovered the world of fetish porn I knew a piece of me finally had a place to explore, play and learn.
|My baby Mish-Mish
His name means 'apricot' in Hebrew
Sex only seemed to compound my social problems. My early experiences consisted of me playing "normal," trying to fit myself into the confusing and often contradictory box of "acceptable" female sexuality — and failing miserably. Having little information aside from women’s magazines (in the 90s, best known for their "10 tricks to drive him wild in bed!" articles of little substance) and websites I’d sneak around to stay up late reading like GoAskAlice, I concluded something was inherently wrong with me. I kept my problems shamefully to myself — which, I should add, ironically just increased the shame itself! I was cute, for sure, but sex was so hit-or-miss for me that on the whole, I wasn’t that much fun naked. I once guilted an ex-boyfriend into deleting his XXX collection off his computer (back in the day before smart phones!), if that gives you any idea. Antidepressants and birth control pills, both known to significantly affect sex drive, certainly didn’t help either!
Eventually I found myself in graduate school and was introduced to feminism, where I discovered I was hardly the only woman who struggled with her sexuality. Feminism was instrumental, yet also confusing, as there exists almost as much judgment in certain circles of "women’s empowerment" as in the world at large. Nonetheless, I developed a sense that sexuality was indeed important and worth spending my time learning (and unlearning the negativity), that my body was my home subject to no one else’s desires or rule, and that pleasure was my birthright just as much as any guy’s. I decided to focus my studies on sexuality, gender and health in hopes I’d make sense of my experience and could eventually help others.
Electric Daisy Carnival
My one rule was to stay within my own comfort zone, which I discovered due to my education, was quite broad. I took the stance that so long as it didn’t make me feel icky, why not give it a try? I’d ask myself, if I had a boyfriend or girlfriend into this fetish, would I be willing to play along with them? So long as nobody is getting hurt, where’s the problem, aside from a lack of social acceptability? And am I, with my own share of perverted fantasies, so different from those who are watching my videos? While I needed to make money, of course, I vowed never to compromise my experience for money**** - that’s not what this adventure was about!
That's Dr. Kelsey now
I say all this in the present tense because the learning is always ongoing. Unlike the education system, where I spent much of my life prior, there is no end point to life’s learning. There are no tests to cram for, papers to frantically submit moments before due, and no semester to mark completion and shut down the brain. I may have finished my graduate degree but the process has only taught me how much, in many ways, I don’t know.
Mine's bigger than yours!
This might be a dirty, disgusting porn site, but to me its meant so much more. I would have never learned all this without you watching. Thanks for being part of my journey, and I only hope that this website can be anywhere near as meaningful to you as it has been for me!
I will leave you with these eloquent words from this powerful and poignant article, The Psychology of a Fart: I think we need to own our animalistic nature, not suppress it and be false selves. Being false leads to all kinds of mental and physical disorders. It is when we are true to ourselves and embrace all of ourselves, even our farts, that we become fully human.
* To me, weird is simply anything that’s not deemed "normal," and since what’s seen as normal in the world of sex is basically putting a penis inside a vagina (maybe a butt) or putting our genitals in each others mouths, preferably within a committed relationship or marriage, that makes most of what my friends and I have done on here - weird. (At the same time, I imagine if we added up all the fetishes and fantasies in the world that involve anything outside of this idea of normal, we’d actually find that most people are, in some way, not normal at all!) If you feel uncomfortable with my characterizing this site and the activities on it as "weird," please know that it is not meant as an insult to you or your fantasies in any way, and is simply a term I’ve come to embrace.
** Of course, this begs the question, who is the typical adult model? We all know the stereotype of the drug-addicted, desperate, shallow basket case with daddy issues who would rather be anywhere else in the world… and I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t met a few versions of this person along the way, though I wish I was. At the same time, I’ve met some of the most interesting, intelligent, self-respecting women in this industry, some even more "empowered" than your typical female at a "regular" job. They’re modern hippies, feminists, students, business owners, sometimes mothers. Due to the nature of the business, having few requirements for employment, and often paying in cash, of course those in a more dire situation are attracted to this field. And for those in that position, I have a great deal of empathy. Yet in my own experience, its perfectly possible to create a website featuring models who are able to hold an intelligent conversation (a must for myself, at least, to feel attraction), enjoy their work, and want to be there. So while I’m pointing out here how I’m not the [negative] stereotype, I’m hardly unique in that respect alone, and believe its far better to hear out someone’s story than sit back on an imaginary pedestal and judge.
*** I understand there are many reasons people use antidepressants, and do not judge anyone’s mental health choices. At the same time, I am highly critical of the pharmaceutical industry (I’d suggest looking at psychiatrist David Healy’s research if this interests you) and these sorts of medications as a one-size fits all approach to depression, particularly because chemically dampening one’s sexuality in many cases seems to be a recipe for poor mental health in itself! I got off birth control a couple years later, and experienced a similar surge of sexual energy I hadn’t ever felt prior. I also understand the reasons women use hormonal contraceptives, and am thankful they did their job for the time I took them. Yet I wish we had better understanding of more "natural" methods of birth control that did not interfere with a woman’s sexuality!
**** I started this site shortly after the 2008 Wall Street crash. At the time, I had a job and didn’t "need" the money, so unlike most businesses, I had the luxury of making it a secondary focus. Aside from covering expenses (porn DOES cost money to create!) I actually invested my earnings from the first couple years, as a buffer in case there was another crash (thankfully there was not!). In time, as this site became my sole livelihood, I did have to focus on money more than I did in the beginning. Because, like you, I enjoy having a place to live, food to eat and electricity to be able to type up things like this! Nonetheless, despite receiving a wide variety of proposals and requests, I’ve always stuck to my personal rule and have studied business models emphasizing ethics, service and "self care." Contrary to my previous beliefs, business doesn’t have to come with a "money over everything" attitude, and my feminist ideals never would have let me push myself beyond my sexual comfort zone for what were essentially strangers on the internet. There have been times I’ve even taken on debt when I was facing financial challenge, promising myself I would learn to run my business better, over engaging in sexual acts I had no desire to try. Rest assured, I’ve had fun in most everything I’ve shot, and if I didn’t, I simply chose not to do it again!