What never ceases to amaze me is how often guys obsess about their size and seem to assume women feel the same way they do! I think some guys think whatever they see in porn is true, and not just a fantasy created FOR them. Is bigger better? Might be, if that’s what she really prefers… But there are plenty of reasons why bigger can actually get in the way of enjoying good sex! The truth is, guys of ALL sizes have had happy, healthy, sex-filled relationships, and just like any other part of a relationship, whether size is an issue totally depends on the two people involved.